About Ron dwinnells

Adapting to two vastly different cultures was quite a challenge. Balancing American and Japanese traditions felt like trying to inhale air while submerged in water. Neither culture fully accepted me, as I looked, thought, and acted differently from most kids.

I was born in Kamakura, Japan in 1955 to a 21-year-old Japanese mother and an American soldier stationed there after World War II. Initially named Yoshikawa Kumeo, my name was changed to Ronald Dwinnells when I turned six. My Japanese family registry listed me as the firstborn son of Yoshikawa Hisako, with no mention of my father since they were not married—a significant taboo in post-war Japan.

Much of my childhood was spent among people who did not resemble me. Despite having a Japanese name, mother, and citizenship, I was not accepted in Japanese society and was labeled a "hafu" (half-breed). My mother's family disowned us, and I was an outcast in both my parents' families. Growing up, I often fought with Japanese kids and faced hostility from adults.

My father, due to military obligations, left us after my birth but returned when I was around five. They planned to marry before he reported to Fort Knox, Kentucky. Concerned that I didn't speak English, my mother enrolled me in a nearby Catholic Missionary Kindergarten, unaware it was Italian. One day, she proudly told me to greet my father in English, and I said, "Ciao Padre!" He laughed, and I was embarrassed, thinking I had said something wrong.

After my parents married, I became a naturalized U.S. citizen and got an American passport. Moving to Kentucky, I faced new adversities. I was no longer a "gaijin" but was now called a "lousy dirty Jap." I struggled with English and had a hard-to-pronounce last name, unlike the typical names in rural Kentucky.

I had to deal with these new challenges caused by being different. Through resilience and resolve, I learned to embrace failures, adversities, mistakes, and even enemies. Ironically, these difficulties contributed to my successes and the happiness, peace, and contentment I enjoy today.

My first book, "Don’t Pick Up All the Dog Hairs," is about what not to do in leadership and life, based on my difficult experiences. Many leaders face daily challenges. My message to readers is to embrace adversities and turn them into positives. Embrace, accept, learn, teach, and move on after difficulties for a good life. Enjoy the "Don't Pick Up All The Dog Hairs" book—it's a fun read!